Loving Wide Open at The End of an Era

Her Days Are Numbered. That's Why We Make Them COUNT.

Month: December, 2012

Day 84

Presents

I.
presents
not a single one under the tree
nothing shopped for, trussed up, unwrapped.
it is a lean christmas, and as the days go by
we think, “soon. perhaps soon.”
but the days go by and the bank account
has other needs
mom flies into town from Austin
and we decorate the tree
snip pine boughs from the spruce in our yard
and fill the house with the scent of solstice
and the easy silly laughter that comes only from
years spent together under a common roof.
on christmas eve we drive up Taos Mountain
to the authentic bavarian lodge, brought over
piece by piece from Germany
at 10,000 feet
we indulge
sausage and goulash soup
made by the hands of someone
who remembers the Old Recipes
beer stein froth makes mustaches of our lips
pulling the corners of our mouths
skyward with giggles and goofiness
and i’m thinking WOW.
this indulging the moment
this loving what is
this celebrating of life
this is fun. this is free.
this is why we’re here.
we sing carols all the way
down the mountain
izzy hangs out the window
snoot full of icy wind
she doesn’t care
she was born for this
she loves the ride
no matter what.
again i think wow.
this is why we’re here,
to enjoy the ride
to be in The Presence.

II.
christmas eve
the weather channel predicts
a sixty percent chance of snowfall
gazing into the teal-dark night
we’re giddy at the prospect
yet guarding our hope with gargoyle talons
for the snow queen has been stingy
in taos
for two years.
snow on christmas?
almost too good to be true
but we are believers in and proponents of
The Too Good and True
and so we chant incantations
and light candles
singing to the Old Man in the Moon
and his Mistress of Clouds
“Im Dreaming of a White Christmas”
as we sit around the green table
cutting crunchy orange, red, blue and yellow
construction paper rings
for a paper chain of gratitude
suddenly we’re all back in kindergarten
playing with glue and pens and paper
simple wonders. simply wonderful.
on each link in the chain,
a phrase, a name, a prayer
all blessings that have made
this rich life richer
a green ring bears the name
of a little grey mouse
a red ring carries a name
from Neverland
“grama” on the purple
“soulmate” on the orange
“life” on the yellow
others bear the words of sufi poets
prophets and mystics from
another age
they’re strung one by one
a delicate forgery
of steel-clad hope and thanks
to those who make of our life
a present
round and round the tree
we drape them like a necklace
an offering
to the angels of appreciation

III.
I wake at 6am to discover
a dream fulfilled
the wish-keeper  has
come in the night
and filled our stockings with
white christmas
the sage is covered in
a rich blanket of icing
the eyes of the fir trees
peer out at me
as they hide inside
white coats fluffed up
around their shoulders
the horizon is solstice elixir
nature magic wielding white spells
suddenly I am seven years old
running through the house
toward my presents
trailing a wake of dreams-come-true
with my brightly checkered socks
“snow! snow! snow!”
stepping outside in nightgowns
and pajama feet
we feast our hungry eyes on winter’s cape
and howl with joy
at the Old Man in the Moon
and his Mistress of Clouds
in thanks for The Present.

IV.
afternoon finds us at the Taos Pueblo
oldest native endwelling in America
a thousand years of footsteps accompany ours
as we stand in snow and mud and wind
to witness ancient sacred ceremony:
the Dance of the Deer
and i am reminded of the first moments of
Julie Taymor’s The Lion King
in the darkened theater
as musical notes rise with the savanna sun
dozens of huge puppet creatures
half man, half animal
sway and prance down Broadway aisles
to take their place on stage
i sit in the audience, over and over,
to laugh and cry at the same time,
so overcome
with raw power,
with a presence
unnamable and shimmering with power.
and today?
i think Julie was a fan of the Deer Dance
and her million-dollar spectacle
bows down before muddied authenticity
and fades into obscurity.
The Procession approaches:
a crowd of deer heads,
antlered all
stalk toward us silently
on cloven feet
two human legs
two deer legs
in the hands
of Native men
transform every creature
into something Other
pelts hang down dark backs
slick with sweat
it is difficult to discern
where human ends
and animal begins
Buffalo is there
and Mountain Lion too
Donkey and Cow and Fox
move in royal unison to the sound
of Elders chanting
and the pounding of hand
on drum, thousands of years old.
we’re cold, our fingers and toes are going numb
but we’re melting in The Presence.
and in the circle, in front of the church
of the First Mother
the animals dance
the Koshare with their hawk feathers
whoop and call and race and dive
and we, the observers,
we are hushed to a hum
cards and carols and wrapping paper
abandoned
toys and traffic and turkeys
forgotten
we are a hymn
silently swaying in trance
a rhythm of grace and wonder.
and up above,
surrounding us all,
lining the rooftops
of mud-bricked adobes
older than memory
are Grandmothers and Grandchildren
Sisters and Aunties and Great Grandfathers
side by side they stand over our heads
each wrapped in a hand-woven blanket
serapes of cornsilk yellow
sunset orange
wide sky blue
pine bough green
and
the tears
clear and bright
as a new year
stream again.
for these blanketed beauties?
they look like christmas presents
crowded together under the Earth Tree
each tied with a dark ribbon
of silky black hair
each offering their wordless soul
to the dance of hooves and tusk and antler
surrendering their hope
and silent songs
to prosperity, to growth, to Spirit
human presents offering
their most sacred gift
of Presence

V.
Christmas night is a bowl of silver
the moon is almost full
and dazzling each snowflake
into liquid diamond radiance
we stand in the kitchen
warm golden fire in the kiva
we’re making cookies from a recipe
that came from mother’s mother’s oven
no metal or plastic shapes for us
we’re kicking’ it old school
hearts and stars and circles
(and one Silas-creation fashioned after the
shape of my bum)
lovely awkward shapes
made from hands
our hands
full of ordinary magic
hands used to wipe a stray hair
from a loved ones brow
hands used to build a fire
to keep one another warm
hands that shape paper chains
into a christmas tree necklace of hope
hands that hold each other
for warmth, for kindship
for presence,
for the solid comforting
reminder
that we are here
and we are together.

VI.
cookies cooling on their tins
bellies full of yuletide dinner
we gather around the tree
sinking deep into the red couch
and deeper into an enchanted
silver-gold light
the conversation quiets
and sweetness settles like a sigh
upon the shoulders of night.
no one speaks,
but everyone hears:
there is a heartbeat
inside each of us
and tonight
it is singing a lullaby
in five part harmony
the words are hard to catch
but the tune is merry
and filled with moments
that will soon become memories:
snow filled whiskers
and goulash soup
howls at the moon and
white-shawled sage
foamy-moustached laughter
and cookie bottoms
crunchy construction paper prayers
and deer-clad raven haired wonder
there are ghosts
from christmas’s past
lined up like sentinels
in a paper chain
the space under the tree
is empty of presents.
not a single one fills the void
yet we gaze at the tree
hearts filled to bursting
a lullaby carrying us
onward
into the night
windows down
enjoying the ride
arms and lives
overflowing
with Presence.

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Queen of our Castle.

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Day 77

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The best thing about Holiday shopping? Izzy is welcome in Hobby Lobby!

Wheeeeee!

She has exquisite taste in bones, pillows and Daddies.

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Day 76

 

Good morning Mocha Peppermint Latte!

Now, you gonna share that coffee cake or what?

 

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Day 75

At last! AT LAST! It’s only taken us 16 years to get a proper bedroom set with…dare I say it…drawers!!! Headboard! Footboard! Nightstand! We don’t know what to do with ourselves, it’s all so exciting after living out of boxes and shelves and cubes. Izzy is only too eager to help us celebrate its arrival. Nap time, anyone?

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Day 74

Up the Mountain, Down the Mountain

It happens in Taos. A moody sky. The storm gods mixin’ it up in the heavens, and you just know: anything could happen. But whatever it is, it’s gonna be pretty. In winter, that could mean a hail storm. Rainbows. Giant marshmallow clouds traipsing across the mountain tops. A shroud of fog.

On days like this I like to grab Izzy, my camera, and head out just to see what there is to see.

Those days have been few, sitting with Izzy as I do day after day on the couch, keeping her company and giving her comfort.

But today? She’s having a good day and the brooding sky is just too compelling. Deb volunteers to drive us up the mountain for a little Bavarian treat. Silas rides shotgun and Izzy and I take in the view from the back. I’ve got my cell phone for photography. Not ideal, but enough to capture this moment. And we’re off!

The view in the back seat:

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Approaching Taos Mountain:

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And now up up UP!

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Skiers!

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The Bavarian! The best thing about this authentic Bavarian lodge brought over piece by piece from Germany? Not the authentic 64oz. beers. Not the goulash soup. But the fact that they let Izzy inside to sit on the wool-pelt covered warm seats!

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First class treatment from Laini! She’s mashing up sausage for Izzy straight from the kitchen!

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And now down, down, down we go! So far it still looks like the same day. But in just a few minutes…

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The sun begins to peek out and light-play with the trees!

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We have to get out of the car and play in the light!

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Once off the mountain, we stopped the car and took pictures facing the way we’d just come. Whoa.

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What a ride.

Day 73

This is how I feel every morning when I wake up and Izzy is still breathing…

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..her heart beats a rhythm of togetherness that squeezes my soul alive and crowds my heart with glee.

To this I say YES.
To this I say THANK YOU.
To this I say MORE.

Day 72

Snowfall!

Izzy’s favorite season.

Today as we play in the park, I hear angels singing. A prayer answered. A wish granted. I asked for her to be able to play in the snow before she departs for The Next Place. After all, she grew such a pretty winter coat this fall. Probably the thickest, curliest, most lovely frock she’s ever flourished. And today, we got to flaunt it through the snow.

Thank you. Whoever’s listening.

Thank you. Whoever’s granting.

Thank you for both wings and paws that guide us through this winter wonderland dream come true.

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Day 71

Snow, like a promise.We leave footprints
like a calling card
a love letter for Winter.

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